we fight but we love
we're enemies but more like lovers
We have been sharing this relationship for almost two years now. Almost two years of fighting, crying, laughing, dreaming, celebrating, hurting and most of all loving.
I must admit, our relationship is not really perfect, not even close. Fights are there to give spice in a seemingly loving relationship. We fight to the point of nearly breaking up. And when we fight, we really fight. Since I am not the kind of person who would just shut up and accept defeat even though the person knows he/she is right, a fight is really a fight. Try to imagine two people fighting over a matter and at the same time getting both ideas acrossed to one another, that’s how we fight. Yet, I love it this way. I love fights because in fights, I know both of us are working with our own differences. We care for each other in a way that we are not afraid to point out our mistakes.
We fight, we sometimes came to a point of breaking up just because we won’t consider each other’s point, but we always love. In short, we fight because we love each other. Although there were times that the outcome of our fight is a bit unfair because I always win, still, it’s good to know we’re not giving up the fight to last a lifetime and to defy the odds in the relationship.
Why, then, have we come this far even if fights are common between us?
Well, maybe it’s because both of us love each other too much that letting go is an idea we can’t entertain. We both have the same goal in life. We planned our future and settled for that already. We both have the mutual understanding that fights really do come off.
So here’s an advice for all of the lovers out there:
Do not let a single fight ruin what you have. Do not easily give up just because he/she did not do what you asked. Learn to compromise and understand that neither of you is perfect. You always have a room for mistakes, don’t forget that. Love each other as a person and not because he/she is beautiful or rich. And when I say as a person, love even the flaws that he/she has.
my own story about love
hmmm…i am alone in my room right now and i’ve got nothing to do. the mp3 is on, the fan is humming and the rain just keeps on pouring, then, something came up to my mind. i will talk about love this time. a love i never knew exists until this person came to my life and made me realized that love is the most wonderful feeling a person could probably feel. you may say that it is just a feeling, but mind you, it’s a feeling that could somehow change everything you thought you know about love.
well, start it off, i am going to tell you my own lovestory. although i know some may have known some part of it, but the truth is still with me right? the real feelings i felt, the love that swept me off of my own little feet. i am going to tell all of you, about this one ordinary man turned out to be extra ordinary, extra perfect for me and how he once made me fall in love and from then on, i never stopped falling for him. i must warn you though that this entry might be too mushy for all of you to read, but for me? it won’t be. this article will be an attestation on how my life changed and how much he loved me in return. telling you all of this is as hard as telling my parents that i commited a mistake. it’s hard not because i made a mistake, but it’s hard because this is my very first time to fill you in with the details of my life. particularly in the aspect of love. funny though, but i don’t wanna stop myself from doing so. oh, well, let’s cut the crap and let’s keep on moving. Read the rest of this entry »
the only love letter that made me cry
June 21, 2008
To my:
Dearest Mamine
Listen to my story
I’m in my room right now
Here it goes
The weather is so cold. The rain never stops. I could clearly hear the rain’s tictac as I’m lying here in my bed. Familiar isn’t it? The same weather as last year when we first met. Let me recall…
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